Do you have the winning attitude?

We all have the ability to see our dreams come true. The power of a dream is

powerful in the hands of a person with the right positive attitude; the winning

attitude!

A dream that comes true is not just pure luck; but it is rather hard work, perseverance and a positive mind.

Focus Coaching

Change Your Focus, Change Your Future

The winning attitude is a positive mind. Do you think positive thoughts or is your mind filed with skepticism and negative thoughts that destroy every single dream?

If you want to see your dreams come true, start to think positive and look for an opportunity in what might not look too great.

Do you see the cup half empty or half full?

If you start with just one small seed, water it, nourish it, give it some sunshine it will grow ..

A dream is not just a goal you will see fulfilled in the future. No, a dream and a goal is a journey in which you go though adventures and hard work and enjoy your life.

You need to take some risks in life. Take the chance and do the impossible and get the experience of being on un-safe ground. That is where you grow and you will see a side of yourself you have never seen before.

Get out of your comfort zone – step into something new ..you don’t have to jump off of a tall building on your first day ..but how about climbing a small step-ladder

..How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time !!

Watch your thoughts; they become words.

Watch your words; they become actions.

Watch your actions; they become habits.

Watch your habits; they become character.

Watch your character; it becomes your destiny.

–Frank Outlaw

We need to watch our thoughts. You are an influence on yourself and other people

..Who is your biggest critic? ..Yes YOU ARE! How many times a day do you have a voice in your head saying ..you can’t do this or you can’t do that ..STOP LISTENING! You can do anything that you truly want to! With help and guidance.

Start to think positive and visualize your dreams coming true in your mind. There is hidden power in your mind.

You are amazing, a human being, that tiny baby formed into this incredible person with huge potential just waiting to be released

Just have faith ..take those first steps, align, learn and carry on !

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Victim or Victor

YOU always have the ability — in all of life to be either…the victim or the victor.

With the exception of “Acts-of-God,” which account for maybe 2% of life’s occurrences – 98% of your life, career, marriage, financial situation, family matters are ALL the result of…either things you DO or things you don’t do.
Seriously you can change the course of a life, a relationship, a career – in a heartbeat (as Tony Robbins says). If you truly want control, I believe that either you control your life or your life controls you.

Life is a wonderful thing.

You have the opportunity to do so many things, be so many things, achieve so many things, influence so many things, contribute to so many things.
But far too many – people today take the position of being victims. Victims of the economy. Victims of bad choices. Victims of bad luck. Victims of bad upbringing.

You hear time and time again of brothers who went through the same physical and emotional abuse, one turned out to replicate these traits, abusing others and passing in the negativity, the other a humble, caring human being wanting to give back to the community …how can this be ? Same events different outcomes….

What we do with circumstances and events really IS what determines who we are, what we are, what we achieve.

You can use this infinite opportunity to grow, add value, contribute to people and the world OR you can suck the life and emotion…and passion out of everyone you’re around.

We are in absolute control of our fates and destinies.

If you don’t like your life, you really CAN change it – even today. If you don’t like your body, you really can change it – with disciplined exercise and diet. If you don’t like your relationship, you can change it or end it – by taking meaningful corrective action.

But most people would prefer hoping, dreaming, remorsing or wishing rather than doing – “whatever it takes.” I’ve seen to many unhappy, unsuccessful people.
Guess what they almost ALL have in common? Nothing! Or more accurately, they do nothing meaningful to change their situation, circumstances or plight.

Buying a book you don’t read or don’t implement on isn’t something you should be proud of.
Attending a seminar you don’t follow through with isn’t any great achievement.
Paying a coach or consultant for guidance you don’t use or follow isn’t something to be proud of, either.

I’ve been in relationships that weren’t making me happy, once I had made the decision to leave then I felt better.

I’ve been in careers that were boring me, not fulfilling me so I reinvented myself and found new areas of opportunity.

It was never-ever a “piece-of-cake.” It takes critical thinking, courage, committed and continuous forward motion and action.
You may find that the first “knee jerk” reaction to situations don’t always produce the desired result that we want, this may just be because our action just need a little tweaking, a small change to the courses direction can make a huge difference.
Think about it, A plane takes of from New York, if it just went in a straight line would it end up in London ? ..no ..the pilot needs to plot the course, adjust for wind speeds and other atmospheric changes..small changes gets you to your target.

Most people “give up” the first time they hit resistance, a setback or non-success…in any aspect of their lives. Is it any wonder so few people achieve much (or any) of the life’s pleasures, payoffs and the pursuits they say they want?

What’s I’m trying to tell you is that all that you have always had and wanted for yourself and family, you have today – right now at this moment and you will have it equally available throughout the rest of your life – total, absolute and magnificent control of almost everything you want, crave and/or don’t want and wish to improve.

Whether you pro-act or react. Whether you initiate or contemplate.
Whether you feel victimized or “empowerized” is really…totally up to YOU!

There’s a relevant story I’d like to end on – it’s old but appropriate.

Two young Indian braves wanted to embarrass the wise medicine man intheir village. So they decided to take a small bird and hold it in their hands behind their backs. Then they would ask the wise man whether thebird was alive – or dead. Whichever he answered, they planned on embarrassing the wise man. If he said it was alive – they’d break thebird’s neck before they held it out.

So when the braves went to ask the wise man whether the bird being held behind their backs was alive or dead, he simply replied “The answer lies in YOUR hands.”

Your fate, your happiness, your prosperity…your health – it ALL lies in your hands.

I hope sincerely that you will make the absolute most of the rest of your life. Because, my friend – you absolutely can and that’s all you’ve got.

My inspiration for this was based on an email from Jay Abraham- I found it so true and therefore re-worded it and made it relevant to my story

I hope that you too find it inspiring