The 6 “human” needs – In a dog’s life!!!

We have recently got a dog, he was a stray and in desperate need of a home, he was living rough and eating out of peoples bins, so we found a place for him with us and WOW what an impact he has made on all of us!
He is very gentle but he is huge and very strong, but has the nicest temperament. He was obviously once trained but he is very mischievous and is still only a puppy.

Rusty is the first dog I have owned since being an adult, so this experience really is enlightening. Being a life coach, I have found that I have been noting his behaviour and what I have been amazed about, is how many “human” traits he has.

You may or not know about the 6 human needs that we all crave
Everything that we do in life meets one of the 6 human needs – whether we like it or not!
The needs are:
• Certainty
• Variety
• Love and Connection
• Significance
• Contribution
• Growth

What ever we do meets one of these needs. Even when it is something that we shouldn’t be doing.
For example: I know I should be exercising but I don’t! ..If I think about this, my need for not exercising is meeting Certainty. I am certain I won’t enjoy exercising, I am certain that I will get bored long before it has done me any good – so why start at all!

However by finding situations in your life that meet all your needs is fantastic and if you can find ways to have more of these the more success you will have.

A positive example:
I love writing and from it I get all 6 of my needs met :
Significance – I feel proud of what I have written, knowing that
Someone, Somewhere in the world will share my thoughts – how powerful is that!
Variety – I get variety from all the different topics that I write about and research
Love and Connection – connecting to people from all over the world! The written word is such a powerful, expressive tool
Certainty – Someone will read my words and I know deep down that this is what I should be doing
Contribution – If just one phrase or word helps someone then how amazing is that!
Growth – I learn so much about me and how I think from my writing and research I am a never-ending student of life!

Back to my Dog Rusty!

rusty-resized
He also seems to need to have these needs met – human or not!!!
Significance: He shows he is significant to us by guarding the door, running after the postman and has developed a great bark for people going past in their cars, (which he loves to chase)
Variety; Oh yes – socks, shoes, hankies – if Rusty is board then he gets destructive – he needs variety. He is also a little escape artist, all though we keep thinking we have Rusty proofed the garden he still manages to escape!
Love and Connection: As any dog owner will know, he lives to love us, always so pleased to see us and brightens up my day
Contribution: Not only does he brighten my day, he also calms me if I am feeling stressed. And he makes me walk him. Rusty is definitely contributing to my fitness regime!
Growth : whether it is learning to fetch a ball, rollover or just come on command – he is growing and learning constantly.
Certainty : He has to be included in what ever I am doing – he follows me around, whines if I go out and needs to have certainty that he is not going to be abandoned again! (never!!!)

So whether you are human or animal we all want or 6 “human” needs to be met.

Can you see something in your own life that you love to do and feel passionate about?
Write down a list of experiences that you have from this and see how many of these 6 human needs are being met – you will be amazed!

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